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#2621 Deep Blue Something

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Me and Sid Ellisdon on 10th Street in the East Village. Photos: Anthony Urbano

As we all know, the fashion world as a whole, and menswear in particular, is obsessed with indigo. It's hardly a new obsession (I remember reading Nudie's denim catalogues — which called it "A living, breathing colour"— back in 2005), but this summer saw a proliferation of the blue stuff in all manifestations, from denim to t-shirts, and at a full spectrum of outposts, from the high-end designers to the chains like Uniqlo and Gap.


It suits me just fine because it's my favourite colour to wear, and there are so many different shades and hues on offer, that you can quite easily throw them together head to toe without thinking too much about it. So that's what I did here.


The t-shirt is from Uniqlo's Pure Blue Japan Project (a steal at $19.95). I bought it oversized then hot washed it, and it's fitting pretty perfectly now. Like with every single indigo thing on the market, the label advises against rubbing up against anything white at the risk of staining it with the living, breathing indigo, but I don't think that'll be a problem with this light blue. Knock on wood.


The sweatshirt is the first thing I bought when I moved to New York City. It was the height of the #menswear blogging moment, and I picked it up from Club Monaco for something ridiculous like $119. I would never pay that now for a cotton sweatshirt, but I'd just arrived, I needed something warmish for the fall, and I was so used to paying extortionate prices in New Zealand for everything that I probably thought I was getting a bargain.


The jeans are my Levi's 501s. I succumbed and got them tapered because the baggy legs were freaking me out a little too much. $50 later, they're pretty perfect, and I'm sure I'll wear them a lot over winter.


I like socks, a lot. So I bought a bunch off the J.Crew website the other night when I was home alone and bored — a bad combo when your feet are cold and your credit card is within reach. These ones are made from wool and they're decorated with a blue and cream fleur-de-lis.


And these are my mates Sid Ellisdon and Richard Biedul. [Cue white men can't jump joke here.]


I'm wearing: Uniqlo t-shirt; Club Monaco sweatshirt; Maximum Henry belt; Ray-Ban Clubmaster glasses; Levi's 501s; J.Crew socks; and Converse Chuck Taylors.

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#2622 The Ultimate Fall Roadtrip Playlist

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Photo: Tucker Vander Wyden
It goes without saying that the moment temperatures start dropping, you should stop doing whatever you're doing and focus all your energy on finding a warm body to keep you company for the cold months. Next, find a cozy log cabin somewhere appropriately picturesque — preferably surrounded by golden-leafed trees and a glassy lake — and get the hell of Dodge.

Click over to MYHABIT's blog theFIX for a playlist I put together for the journey.

It contains a fun combination of my favorite club bangers courtesy of Bobby Shmurda, Drake and Kanye, some sexy moments courtesy of Tinashe and Jhene Aiko, one incredible track off the equally incredible soundtrack from the brilliant new film The Guest, and an old faithful by Crystal Castles featuring Robert Smith which is bound to keep things feeling mad real.

"Cos it's cold outside... When you coming home?"

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#2623 So You Got Yourself Into A Casual Relationship, And Now You Want More

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Photo: Katherine Lowe
Anon asks: Hi Isaac, I have been dating this guy for about six months now. We have lots of fun together and really enjoy each other's company. The thing is he is moving overseas in a year and doesn't want to be in relationship so is just happy keeping things casual. I was happy about this at first but now I'm starting to want more. How do approach talking him about possibly making things more serious? and is it actually worth it being in a relationship with someone if they are moving away in a year?

While I do sympathize with your plight, I’m firmly of the opinion that casual relationships are a nightmare from the get-go, because one party will invariably want more and end up getting hurt. After all, what person can have a prolonged sexual relationship with another person and not get attached? We're not robots, people, we're people. I think it’s best to avoid these undefined sexual partnerships at all costs.

But since you’re already there…

MATE! You're your own worst enemy here. You knew the deal going into the relationship, you walked into it with your eyes wide open, but then your feelings changed, and now you’re stuck between a rock and a hard place because he’s been very clear about two things:

1. He's moving overseas in a year;

and

2. He wants to keep things casual.

As far as I can tell, you have four options:

1. Tell him that you want to move things up a couple of notches from casual to exclusive (but by doing so you run the risk of him saying no thanks because he thought that you guys both wanted the same casual thing out of this whole deal, and let's face it, who doesn't want to be able to have their cake and eat it too?);

2. Follow him overseas when he leaves so long as he wants you to go with him (but since he’s said he wants to keep things casual I fear he might not want that at all);

3. Keep things status quo (but this is clearly going to make you unhappy);

4. Break up with him.

See how none of these seem like extremely attractive options?

So with all that in mind, there's something else I want to talk about because it confuses me quite a lot, and I hear a huge amount of girls in New York talking about it all the god damn time:

How is it that you can get yourself into a situation where you're with a guy but you're worried about scaring him off so you never have the, "So... where are we going with this relationship?" conversation?

I understand that people enjoy the company of others, and that people love having sex. But who wants to constantly be wondering whether or not the thing they're in is legit?

Call me old fashioned, but if you're spending a lot of time with another person (like, at least two or three days a week), you're sleeping with them every time you see them, and they're the first person you invite whenever you're about to go do something, THEN THE TWO OF YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP.

Do you want that person who you're sleeping with two or three times a week to be sleeping with someone else? Probably not, unless an open relationship was agreed on from the outset (and we all know what I think about that), so why not lock those rules in place from the very beginning?

I can promise you right now that doing so doesn't make you needy or clingy or uncool or not able to go with the flow, it makes you a completely normal, ordinary human being, seeking a completely normal, ordinary thing (i.e. a boyfriend/girlfriend who you can trust with your heart... and your loins).

Any guy or girl who says otherwise or tells you that they don't want anything serious is more than welcome to go be casual with somebody else.

Life's too short. Why waste time with idiots who refuse to commit? But more importantly, why be an even bigger idiot who allows someone to treat them like that?

And that's all I have to say about that.

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#2624 Steinway Live From The Factory Floor, Featuring Elio Villafranca

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Me and Elio Villafranca at Steinway & Sons.

On Tuesday last week, I was invited to do something that I can quite honestly say I've never done before — take a tour of a piano factory. Not just any piano factory, mind you, but Steinway & Sons (which, to aficionados, is like the Rolls Royce of piano companies). I'd been asked there as one of the first ever members of the media to watch a Steinway Live From The Factory Floor performance, this time featuring Cuban jazz great Elio Villafranca. Steinway has been putting these private shows on for years — quite literally on the factory floor — for an audience of company staff, and nobody else. They figured it was time to open the doors to the public, and that's where I came in. Because crafting a piano is such a specific and technical procedure, many of the staff stay in the company for decades, and I'm told there are third and fourth generation employees in the mix. These intimate concerts are both a perk of the job and an opportunity for the workers to see the fruits of their labour, and it was touching to see how moved they were by Villafranca's performance. Check out the video and my disposable camera photos, below, and stay tuned (LOL) for more videos, and an announcement about the next show — there's going to be a giveaway for tickets.













Disclosure: This post was sponsored by Steinway & Sons.

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#2625 Brooklyn Tailors VS New Zealand Tailors

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Last Monday, GQ invited me to the launch party for their Best New Menswear Designers' collaboration with Gap, and I went along and did what any self-respecting human would do — tried on clothes while everybody else socialised and drank champagne and ate cheeseburger sliders.


Thanks to their near-daily blog posts and videos teasing the collab, I knew exactly what I wanted going in — the M.Nii corduroy sherpa coat — but when I saw it in the flesh I decided that the giant plastic buttons emblazoned with anchors were a little loud for my tastes. So I kept browsing.


What I landed on were the pants I'm wearing here, from Brooklyn Tailors' collection — they're high in the waist, long in the crotch, wide in the thigh, and narrow at the ankle (just how I like them), and at under $80, they practically saved me money because I usually have to take all my pants to the tailor to get the exact same finish.


Paired with this grey tweed jacket from New Zealand-based tailors Loft, the outfit has a real 1980s-take-on-the-1950s vibe which I quite like, not dissimilar to something Marty McFly might have worn in Back To The Future. It's probably the most classically conservative-American thing I've ever worn. Ohhh say can you seeeee by the dawn's early liiiiiiight...


I'm wearing: Loft jacket; Kamakura button-down; Hugo Boss 100% wool knit tie; Brooklyn Tailors pants; J.Crew socks; and Mark McNairy navy suede bucks.

Special thanks to Jenny Albright for taking the photos!

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#2626 Read This Before Cheating

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Film still from Disclosure, starring Michael Douglas and Demi Moore.

Anon asks: I have a conundrum. I love my boyfriend, we've been together six years and I can't fault him. Out of nowhere I've started freaking out that this could be the end of the relationship line for me. I've started thinking about someone else, someone we are both (not close but) friends with. Do I suppress it with all my might? Or do something else?

I think this is pretty normal. It’s like that bit in Old School where Will Ferrell’s character talks about how scared he is that he’s only going to see one vagina for the rest of his life. That’s a crass way of putting it, but it’s the same idea.

Because you’re feeling a little freaked out, it’s also completely normal to be taking a look at what else is out there that you might be missing out on. But as we all know, the grass is always greener on the other side, and absolutely nothing is as glamorous or sexy as it seems from the outside. Keep that in mind when you’re fantasizing about having a clandestine rendezvous with this other dude.

The thing about cheating is that it’s a conscious choice. To be blunt, you never just slip over and fall on top of a dick. You make an actual decision and effort to get to know somebody else, to flirt with them, to cultivate a sneaky little relationship, and then the further you go down that path, the easier it is for genitalia to appear and then: Whoops! You've made a mistake and had sex.

Put yourself in the shoes of your boyfriend who you’ve been together with for six years and who you love and can’t fault (your words, not mine). How would he feel if he found out about these thoughts you’re having? Worse, how would he feel if you actually hooked up with another dude? Imagine, then, how embarrassed and devastated and humiliated and emasculated he’d feel if that other dude was someone he’s friends with? The absolute absolute worst, I promise you.

Would you like him to do that to you? Probably not.

Have a serious think about whether or not you want to be in your relationship. If you do, stay in it. If you don’t, be brave and break up with him. But do not — under any circumstances — play with fire because I 100% guarantee that everybody will get burnt.

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#2627 The Sean Kelly Q&A

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Sean Kelly at New York Fashion Week, S/S 2015.
It's safe to say that Sean Kelly started from the bottom now he's here — by bottom, I mean Taranaki, New Zealand, and by here, I mean international recognition thanks to his starring role on this season of Project Runway. I first met Sean when he was volunteering as an usher at New Zealand Fashion Week back in 2010, but the 24 year old Kiwi has made some serious moves since then; halfway through his fashion design degree at Massey University in Wellington, he took off to Copenhagen to intern with Henrik Vibskov where he worked on the Paris and Copenhagen shows, before decamping to London, where he worked for Alexander McQueen drafting patterns and assisting in the lead up to the label's London Fashion Week show. "I just saw everyone leaving design school with the exact same piece of paper, and I wanted a different point of view," he says. "It ended up being the most educational year of my career so far — if you want to see the business and how fast the industry moves, you need to go to work." I sat down with Sean on Friday to talk Heidi Klum, Zac Posen, Nina Garcia and Tim Gunn, and how he feels about currently being the second most famous New Zealander in America, after Lorde.

How did you get from New Zealand to Project Runway?
I graduated this summer from Massey University in Wellington — majoring in fashion designer — and then I came to New York and worked in retail at A.P.C. to get some cash in pocket, and while I was applying for full-time jobs, I found the application for Project Runway on a website, and I didn't know if it was going to work or not because all my folio was menswear and it's a womenswear show, but I landed an interview with Tim Gunn and a guy called Dmitry Sholokhov who won a previous season, I was super nervous, they were filming it, my hands were so sweaty I was like a wet fish, it was totally unknown territory, but I got a really positive response from them, and then we had a lot of other castings and paperwork and I finally got onto the preliminary episode where we were judged by Zac Posen, Nina Garcia and Heidi Klum, and they liked what I did and I made it through.

What's Tim Gunn like?
He's amazing. He's really caring and he wants you to succeed, and not just on the show, beyond the show, too. The great thing about the show is that they're trying to prove your talent as opposed to making you look like an idiot just to make good TV.

And what are Heidi and Zac and Nina like? Did you get to know them?
Heidi is bubbly, she has a lively personality and she's very opinionated about what she likes and doesn't like; Zac is really sweet, he's a designer himself so if he calls you out on something he has a designer's point of view and his criticism is very constructive; and Nina has an editor's point of view which was the scariest to deal with for me, she's the toughest critic on everything.

What was the worst criticism you got?
I made this dress which I hated, and I came back the next day two hours before the show and chopped it in half, and I had a little bit of mesh fabric left over so I decided to make this little mesh top which goes with the skirt, and the judges thought the mesh top made the model look like she'd just had a breast operation and she still had the bandages on... And another time I had to make a 1970s themed outfit for this little girl, and I did a denim vest but it was lacking something, so in the last 10 minutes I decided to put a peace sign on the back, but I forgot that a peace sign has three legs, so I ended up making the Mercedes Benz logo, and nobody noticed until Heidi Klum told her to turn around and was like, 'Ummm... isn't that the Benz sign?' I just owned my mistake (laughs).

So you never fought with the judges?
You can get reprimanded pretty quickly. I learned pretty early on that these people are holding your fate, you don't wanna get on their bad side. I always wanted to be on everyone's good side, it's a highly intense environment, you're competing against people, it's a weird situation and you have to know who to trust, but it's better to play nice.

Where were you living?
Gotham West on the Hudson River, we had a view of the river and New Jersey in all its glory.

And where did you film?
Times Square. That was a beautiful experience, shooting right on Times Square for the entire summer. I kept telling the people who weren't from New York that this is not a fair representation of the city (laughs).

How isolated were you from the outside world?
100% isolated. We weren't allowed to take a walk outside without a production person being present, we had no computers, no cellphones, no newspapers or magazines, no money. It was a very intense and stressful time, whenever I had any down time I spent it trying to come up with new ideas for designs. It really tests your mental and physical limits. I've always been kinda independent, though, so that helped.

What was the biggest thing that had happened in the world that you missed while you were filming?
The Football World Cup. One of the previous seasons was filming when Michael Jackson died and they didn't find out until they got out, so that would have been pretty dramatic.

On a completely different tack, fashion is notoriously snobby, so are you at all worried that you might not get hired because you've been on a reality TV show?
I did consider that factor, but the opportunities that present themselves are yours to make on the show. I was never really scared of what was going to happen in the future, the opportunity to design in a format which was completely free was really great, it just adds to my portfolio. I'm not embarrassed or ashamed of anything I did on the show, but of course it can work the other way if you act out on the show or make some really bad things.

Who do you want to work for?
Proenza Schouler, Thom Browne, Alexander McQueen or Henrik Vibskov are my first choices.

What are your favourite places to shop, eat, drink and hang out in New York City?
I like shopping in SoHo, even though I can't afford it 99% of the time. I love ACNE, but I wear Uniqlo most of the time (laughs). For food I love The Butcher's Daughter in NoLiTa and Pauly Gee's in Greenpoint, and I quite like going for a drink at this weird tiki-themed spot called Surf Bar in Williamsburg.

What are you listening to?
La Roux's new album is really good. But I listen to a lot of hip hop and rap, dirty pop, I just hit shuffle and let it play.

Final question: Has it occurred to you that you are potentially the second most famous New Zealander in America right now, after Lorde?
It's strange. I get recognised on a daily basis. I got stopped 11 times yesterday alone. It depends where I am. Brooklyn is a safe-zone, nobody has a TV (laughs). But If I'm anywhere in Manhattan, it's nonstop. It's mostly gays and moms. A lot of I love yous, a lot of marriage proposals via Twitter...

LOL. Do it.

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#2628 Apple Pickin' With Tom Bull

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My mate Tom Bull flew back into New York on Thursday after a couple of months in Sydney, and so to celebrate, on Friday we drove Upstate to an apple farm with the fine folks from Hudson Jeans and frolicked among the trees and hills and other miscellaneous countryside. As you can see, the months apart had been painful for us both, so to deal with the reunion-induced excitement we both felt but didn't want to admit to, we behaved like a couple of teenage boys and wrestled and made fun of each other and poured bags of apples over each other's heads. The moral of that story is that males never grow up. But would you have it any other way??







I'm wearing: Uniqlo sportcoat; Gant Rugger cardigan; Brooks Brothers Black Fleece shirt; Crane Brothers tie; Club Monaco pants; Clapham socks; and Meermin shoes.

Tom's wearing: ASOS suede jacket; other stuff.

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#2629 The Dog Days Of Summer

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Another week, another disposable camera. I shot this one around Alphabet City and Williamsburg (which, if you're not familiar, are two neighbourhoods that sit directly opposite each other on either side of the East River) over the course of a couple of weeks while the weather was still hot at the tail end of summer. Click below to see the street where I live, my new mate Baixiang Chen, my old mate Corinna Studier, a possible discarded bomb left over from WW2, a case of mistaken identity and a lovely view of Manhattan as seen from the banks of the East River.


Sunset hitting the abandoned school on 9th Street.


Corinna Studier and Baixiang Chen outside Casimir.


Dodgy gas tank on the banks of the East River.


A post-workout Georgia Fowler in Williamsburg.


Classic Lubo.


The view of Manhattan from Williamsburg.


Pamela Bernier by the East River.


My man Phil Sullivan aka Poseidon aka Zeus on the East River.


Richard Biedul rocking out.


And later that night, Richard Biedul at the GQ Best New Designers X Gap event looking a hell of a lot like John Moore from M.Nii.


Sid Ellisdon in Williamsburg.


On Avenue C in my new Alex Mill plaid shirt, all sad because Richie was leaving that night.

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#2630 Yes, Coach!

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You know one of the things that people often find strange about me is that I don't like domestic animals that much. If I had a dollar for every person who has ever told me, "Everyone who doesn't like dogs always loves my dog," I'd have about a billion dollars, and funnily enough, I've never loved any of their dogs. But like every good, patriotic New Zealander, I do love sheep. I love sheep running around on a farm, I love sheep's wool knitted into a sweater, I love sheep on my dinner plate, and I absolutely love a good shearling jacket. Despite the fact that shearling is — in my humble opinion — perennially cool, it's having a particular moment right now, meaning that just about every brand is showing it in some manifestation or other. This coat is by Coach, and it's one of my favourites of the Fall/Winter season. Yeah, it's $$$, but it's made from the hide of a formerly living animal, so y'know. If you want the look for cheaper, don't get faux shearling, that's wack. Scour eBay and see what you can find. I picked up something fairly similar for under $100.






I'm wearing: Coach shearling coat; Coach shacket; Old Soldier t-shirt; 3X1 jeans; and Mark McNairy navy bucks.

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#2631 Bloggers Take Central Park

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Filippo Fiori, me, Marcel Floruss and Filippo Cirulli in Central Park.
You know, a lot has changed since I started this here bloggy wog. Days are shorter, nights are colder, the ability to do this as an actual viable job has (thankfully) grown, and it's enabled a core crew of talented, entrepreneurial and innovative young people to traverse the globe. From the confines of your bedroom to the world, one blog post at a time. Who the GD hell would have thought it possible? Last weekend two of my favourite Italians (Filippo and Filippo of The Three F fame), one of my favourite Americans (Moti Ankari from The Metro Man) and everybody's favourite German (Marcel Floruss of One Dapper Street fame) got together to shoot a joint blog post in Central Park, because what better way to celebrate your mates than to collaborate with them all? Think of it as the United Colors Of Bloggoton... Or something. See below.













I'm wearing: Z Zegna coat, sweater and pants; Punto socks; and Meermin shoes. (Hair and makeup model's own.)

Almost all photos shot by all of us, but special thanks to Susie Lang for the additional group shots.

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#2632 So You Were The Other Woman... Now What

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Javier Bardem, Penelope Cruz and Scarlett Johansson in Vicky Cristina Barcelona.
Anon asks: I recently ended an affair with this guy, I know it's the right thing to do but I have this fear that me being a (former) other woman will affect my future relationships. Like, I have this fear of being judged/rejected by this. I also fear that what has happened will keep me from trusting again. How do I deal with this? Thank you.

My mate has a new girlfriend, right? So I was asking him about her the other day, and he said to me, “If you knew how heavy her history was, you’d tell me to stay away.” I thought about that for a minute, and quickly came to the conclusion that if anybody knew the full extent of most of our relationship histories, they’d probably tell everybody to stay away from everybody else.

It goes without saying that knowingly being the other woman is a pretty dark way to behave, but like you said, you ended it, so now all you have to do is never do that again.

As far as your future relationships go, it’s entirely up to you when/where/how/whether you disclose your past errors of judgment. If you don’t want people to know about stuff you've done, don’t tell them. It's as simple as that. You're under no obligation to dredge up your sordid past, and in most cases doing so is probably a bad idea for everybody concerned.

If by some unfortunate turn of events people do find out and consequently judge you for it, then that's the price you'll have to pay for doing a shitty thing. If people write you off as persona non grata, then they're probably not people you want in your life anyway.

Trust is more difficult. Personally, I always find that I lose 100% faith/trust in relationships after a breakup and it usually takes me anywhere from six months to a couple of years to get over it.

I don’t see why you should treat this any differently than a typical breakup. Sure, he was clearly a dickhead and you clearly acted like a dickhead, but you shouldn’t let it destroy your faith in men, or dictate your future relationships.

We all make mistakes. Just try not to make the same mistakes more than once.

Take some time to get over it, then move on. (Read this, it might help.)

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